Life of a WOMEN

A scene takes place between mother and her inlaws.

Mother:- hello!
Inlaws:- hello beta, what is the good news? Cant wait to hear you!
Mother:- Mumma, im soo happy i just gave birth to a girl child
Inlaws:- ” Cuts the phone call”
Mother:- hello, hello!!! Can you hear me?

YES, CAN YOU HEAR ME?
This is a common question that every girl asks once in her lifetime whenever she feels alone or lost.
A girl plays a role of a daughter, a cute pretty baby, some families celebrate and others grieve

Mother smiles and keeps her daughter name ” Adhira ”
On adhiras 16th birthday , her mother ask her to make a wish
Adhira asks for her father! Mother in tears, and answers “Your father went far away to bring gifts for you, he will come soon”
Adhira:- soon? Like how many days mom
Mother:- umm, he will come when he will find a perfect gift for you, your prince charming maybe
Adhira :- wow mom! Thank you I’m soo excited

Her mother anyhow escapes to speak the reality that her husband and her inlaws left them at the day she was born.

Adhira turned 18, sooo beautiful, gorgeous and attractive
Goes to college, a group of 5 people out there follows her everyday , makes fun of her, and one day they started harassing her , adhira without any fear told them to stay away from her and tells everything to her mother

The next day the guys snatched her dupatta and started teasing, Adhira slapped them in public and gave a final warning that soon she will lodge a complaint to the police
Anyhow she escapes and literally cries in front of her mother.
Her mother tunred a blind eye and explains to her that girls should always stay away and be quite even if something wrong has occured ,bcoz girls cant fight in front of guys or the society, she tells her that no one will marry her if she takes revenge .

Adhira controls herself,
The next day Adhira started going to college, people from her colony and neighbors started gossiping about the same incident
While walking, someone murmurs from behind
” Ye dekho besharam, ye toh padhne jaa rahi hai, meri beti hoti toh sharam ke maare apna muh naa dikhati”
Adhira ignores and reaches college…
Soon time flies, she is now 25 , well qualified , today is a big day for her bcoz she always waited for this day since from her childhood,

Aman, a mbbs doctor, 28,well settled comes to see adhira with his family
Adhira and aman started liking each other, love flies around, they said yes to each other and plans to marry soon

Soon, she got married, after few days of her Marraige her mother in law asks her to leave her studies and the job

Adhira does not listen to her in laws and goes to the job, at night when aman gets to know things, comes and slaps adhira
Adhira in tears, asks him only one word! Why?
Aman tells her to leave her job, friends, studies and to take care of home
Adhira then went out of the house

WHERE SHE WOULD HAV GONE?
She complains a file for her husband and mother in law, section 498, under government laws.

She Met them directly at the judiciary court…
The Judge asks her to speak about her complain

Adhira speaks in tears
I, adhira, a women, a daughter , a grandaughter, a house wife
These are the only characters i play in the society of India, where a girl child is born to stay quiet all her life, and become a slave or entertainment of many!
My father left my mother bcoz of me
Guys out there in my colony tried to harass me
I was told to stop and abandon my studies
I was told to sit at home and do daily house chores only
I was restricted to make friends
But i am not the one who will face this , i am not strong like my Mother who beared it all her life, a girl is equal to men, god has divided only the sexual organs nothing else, a women is more stronger bcoz she gives birth to a new being, she goes to job and handles all home, she respects the society than herself,… but people think girls are born to become slave and reproduce
I want to be the change, I’ll fight for my rights. I want to change this fate”

The judge called for 2 years of jail for her husband and mother-in-law and penalty of 10000 rs

Adhira’s mother hugged her and appreciated her! “adhira now you are a future of many women” her mother replied.

Adhira now has her own NGO for women rights and fights with women for their rights!!!

THERE IS ALWAYS A HIDDEN ADHIRA IN EVERY GIRL!

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How to make your life happy and full of excitements.


How to make your life happy and full of excitements.

It’s a question running on everyones mind but answer discovered by very few.
We all work hard and struggle to make our life happy but this is not the way. Yes you heard right this is not the way…! We’ll tell you some secrets that will change your boring life more excited and it’s not that difficult trust me.

So we have some really simple steps to follow that will make your life more excited and happy.

1. Craziness is important.

The most important fact is you need to be Lil crazy i know it’s weird but no one is paying you for your serious attitude though. Craziness means you have to be more open up and having fun around. Making fun of the things that disturbing you will indirectly make you stress free out of that thing.
Just imagine you don’t care about the serious stuffs getting around you. Your mind is chill and more active now.

2 share a fun loving environment

Your environment decides what kind of person you are so, share a fun loving environment that will help you to build up healthy atmosphere and keeps your life free from that rubbish politics. Start cracking jokes on some stuffs even that are not much funny but that is helpful to make you a pro on these things. People will recognise you as a fun loving person and that indirectly makes you feel more special about yourself.

3. Don’t bring negative thoughts.

Don’t bring negative thoughts in your mind because this is the main reason why we are depressed. Start neglecting negative thoughts if they are disturbing you much go out have fun. Watching movies(specially comedy), going out with friends, playing many games it’s healthy during this period.

4. Be social

Being Social means connecting with people and this means you are growing up your network which will be healthy for you. Go out and hangout with friends will be one option or travelling new places, going to social networking sites, being friendly to everyone are the source to be a social person.

5. Change your way of thinking

Goal is everything in an individual’s life. Make a goal it can be achieving a degree, being fitness model, starting your own business etc. This will remind you that you have a target or destination to reach. This is positive way of approach to get a happy and excited life.
If you can’t make long term goals as discussed start with short term goals. That will complete your targets and will approach to more other targets too.

These are the steps you can follow to make your life excited and happy.
Nothings gonna change if you don’t follow it but if you do it will make a difference.
Think about upgrading yourself and too in a better version. So, let’s make a better version of yourself and leave an impact on people around you.

#change #development #life #joy #positive #real 

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Music psychology..

“Music is a platform which is common to all race, religion and nationality.” 

Music have a great impact on human life. It requires only the music to encourage an individual. We can say music is limitless because in our entire globe no one is out of the music’s touch.

Music was started as a part of entertainment in human life when we were very far from any technology. As we all have heard and also seen some backward tribes singing and dancing around a fire. Some call it a tradition, culture and lifestyle too.

So you can imagine from where music followed us and now we can say we are all followers of music. 

Some facts about Music .. 

 

Psychological facts of music in human brain is that our brains started developing a different cell only for music in simple words brain have a separate section of music, from this we can have an idea what kind of impact music have.
Music with pure music we can say classical Indian music,  English classics and others are very much useful for mind refreshment. Music is one of the source of mind refreshment. Music with more of the lyrics adds more meaningful impact on listeners. Music with only instruments or simply instrumental is stress destroyer. Music with story telling most accepted in hiphop is connecting minds of listeners with artist. 

There are lots of facts about music as it is a very vast subject to make a discussion on. Some of I know have mentioned here.

Musical impact on one’s lifestyle. 

Your lifestyle is also influenced by the music you listen. The music controls your mind that is why the kind of music you listen directly moulds your thoughts and imagination in that way. This is the reason why some kind of musics are very attached to us. Artists are now making their impact through music which directly makes a listener behave like an artist they listen. There are many facts that can be discussed to prove our lifestyle is also controlled by music. 

This is not a big deal. I know psychologically it is very much offensive to accept this fact but also remember that we change the music genre depending on the situation and mood.

Music therapy. 

Music therapy is a cure for many problems. It is the treatment for depression, stress, psychological illness, headache and many more.

This treatment directly hits the brain that is why music therapy is very much better. This therapy is not known much but is very much effective. 

Evolution of music.

As I’ve said music followed us from the ages but now we are the follower of music thats the different thing. Earlier there was nothing but now there are loads of professional instruments available which have already polished the music sense in humans. Now a days electronic music, hiphop is a very popular genre one is pure instrumental and one is more of lyrics. 

This is all for Music psychology in humans. I hope you all like it. 

Thank you for visiting..! 

#music #culture #believe #psychology #humanbrain #impact #lifestyle #tradition #follower 

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